In 2003 the U.S. Census Bureau reported that over 100 million women in the United States were age 18 and over. Worldwide this estimate is closer to two billion. For the man these numbers present both opportunity and confusion. So what is the confusion you may ask? Simple, not all of them are sexually pleasured in the same way. For most women one of the most satisfying ways to receive pleasure and experience an electrifying orgasm is through receiving oral sex. Performing great cunnilingus is an art that every man can learn.
Performing oral sex on a woman requires good attention to detail, thus no one will argue that practice makes perfect and few women are going to deny their lover that practice. Nevertheless, at AskUncleTerry.com we regularly here from men that love to receive oral but are afraid to do a bit of muff diving. We also hear from those that just cannot get enough of it and are looking for a few new techniques. Here are a few tips to enjoy your stay in the land down under.
Similar to actual underwater diving, S.C.U.B.A. gear is necessary. Only this time the acronym does not stand for Self Containing Underwater Breathing Apparatus.
Safety
Before beginning, make sure your mouth is clear of canker sores or any other wounds. If this is someone you do not know very well, be careful of possible STD’s that could be lingering. Make sure you and your partner are free of infection or disease. Until Houston says, “Prepared for Launch” it is not good to assume everything is a-ok.
Communication
Communication is very important. It is essential to inform each other of what feels good and what does not. Some girls might not like oral sex performed on them. It could be because of a rough ex-boyfriend or even because it does not do anything for them. Investigate a little before “diving” in. Verbal interaction is a way to show her that you are interested in making the experience better.
Guys, remember the girl in high school when you had to battle the “teething” issue? Do not, and I stress DO NOT even think about using your teeth. If for some reason you think that she might be into that, ask her. It is safer to assume that she does not enjoy a good nibbling than getting smacked in the face.
Use
Although you are primarily using your tongue, your hands can play a vital role in giving her pleasure. While licking her clitoris, use one of you hands to finger her a little. Start with one finger and work up to two. Remember to be slow and gentle. If you are gently applying pressure inside her she will go crazy while you are massaging her with your mouth. Use your other hand to rub her inner thighs, her nipples or even allow her to suck on your fingers.
Body
Read her body language. It is very important to see how she reacts to what you are doing. This is a great way for a girl to tell you what she likes without her actually having to vocalize it. This touches base with the communication aspect. Not all communication is oral; it can be physical too. If she backs off it may be too intense for her, so watch what she does.
Action
After a good round of foreplay (hopefully she has reciprocated on pleasing you orally) it is time for some action. Most females complain that sex is painful or uncomfortable because they do not engage in any form of foreplay. Since you have performed oral sex on her for a good amount of time (we are not talking 1 minute here) she should be wet and ready to rock. She will be forever grateful that you went down on her. It shows her that you think her vagina is beautiful and that she should not be self-conscience about it. If you make the girl feel comfortable with her body, she is will enjoy sex a lot more and will let it all out.
The moral of the story is that you should always be gentle and make her feel comfortable. If her vagina is happy she will bend over backwards to please you. Having good oral sex during foreplay will make the experience better for the both of you. Good luck and happy diving. We invite you to visit AskUncleTerry.com where you will find great cunnilingus and fellatio techniques, tongue exercises and a whole lot more.
About the Author:
Terrance Lile also known as Uncle Terry is the “Resident Opinionator” at Ask Uncle Terry. Uncle Terry serves frank, down to earth, sometimes brutal advice and writes articles on parenting, relationships and sexuality. He uses humor and knowledge gained through personal experience. When it comes to sex, he is an advocate of abstinence until in a long-term monogamous relationship. Visit Uncle Terry at http://www.AskUncleTerry.com
The Art of Cunnilingus
