There are many women in the world that claim to have never experienced an orgasm. There are numerous men, on the other hand that claim to have given a woman an orgasm. Could it be true that a lot of women fake it? If you don’t know the answer to this question, then you may be truly in denial. At AskUncleTerry.com I am routinely asked, “How can I tell when a woman is faking an orgasm?” The best advice I can give to this question is don’t worry about it, there are ways to make that special lady wet in her pants.
Girls are attracted to a confident guy. There is nothing sexier than a man that knows his stuff. For this reason, make sure that you are very confident in what you do. Approach your target with the mentality of, “Tonight, I will make her scream with pleasure.” Take risks and whisper sexy thoughts in her ear. Feel out her mood. She may be frisky right now, but in twenty minutes she may be uninterested. In order to conquer orgasm, girls need to be in the right mood and have the right setting to help them achieve such bliss.
It may be true that a girl enjoys an occasionally spontaneous screw in the closet at your best friend’s house. However, most likely this is not what she desires most of the time. Guys like to get in and get out. Unfortunately, this is not the way to make her orgasm. A woman needs time to “warm up” and prepare for the glorious ride she is about to embark upon.
Most girls enjoy candles lit, rose pedals on the bed and a nice full body massage. Before jumping into sex, enjoy a good round of foreplay. Take the time to caress her body. There are many spots on the female body that are sensitive to touch. Kiss her neck and ears. Moreover, kiss her all the way down to the point just below her belly button. By teasing near her vagina, you will make her scream for more. Still looking for additional stimulation tips? Rub the insides of her thigh and massage her butt cheeks.
To prepare her for sex, foreplay should be at least thirty minutes long. Take turns performing oral sex on one another. While stroking her vagina with your tongue, use your fingers to rub her clit. Afterward, finger her while licking her clit. Use your other hand to feel her nipples or cradle her rear. Be gentle with her vagina because it is very sensitive and any wrong move could kick her out of a good mood.
It is vital to also talk about sex with your partner. Ask her what she enjoys the most and inquire what things make her uncomfortable. More importantly, listen to her carefully and take mental notes. By talking with her it shows her that you are committed to making her happy. This also lets her know that you are comfortable with her body. A lot of women are so wrapped up in worrying about the inch of flab on their buttocks that they cannot enjoy intercourse. Let her know that she is beautiful. Once again, it is all about the mood. Taking out your pad of notes during sex may be a bit of a buzz kill, so avoid that at all costs.
Every woman is different and you need to approach each from a different angle. The key is to communicate and work together to improve “outcum”. Giving a woman an orgasm is an art of love that takes patience but if you are willing to practice, I’m sure she’s willing to make it perfect.
About the Author:
Terrance Lile also known as Uncle Terry is the “Resident Opinionator” at Ask Uncle Terry. Uncle Terry serves frank, down to earth, sometimes brutal advice and writes articles on parenting, relationships and sexuality. He uses humor and knowledge gained through personal experience. When it comes to sex, he is an advocate of abstinence until in a long-term monogamous relationship. Visit Uncle Terry at http://www.AskUncleTerry.com
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