Some one said," Marriage is made in haven”. In the past men get married in early age, because large families was a boon. But due to industrial revolution many things are been changed. People began to move to the cities, things changed. But today situation is different, because teenagers get married in very early age. So they have to face many problems.
In 1371, due to the plague, the average age at marriage for men was 24, and for women it was 16. By 1427, the average male of all classes did not wed till he was in his mid-30's, usually choosing a bride about half his age.
According to a survey 50-60% teen’s marriage will ends in divorce. Teens get married with a wrong reason. The most common reason is pregnancy; teens get pregnant in very early age. So they have to marriage. And they don’t know what marriage is, or most teens are not ready for the responsibility of marriage.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Marriage means that everything is shared. And it is the name of trust, loyalty, helpfulness, kindness, acceptance, and support. But teenagers do not agree with these, so finally they get divorced.
There are so many things which disturbs married teens life-
Disagreements over money: - both girl and boy, they don’t agree with the same.
Laziness: - this is the second thing; if boy or girl is lazier they will not live together whole life.
Disagreements over children: - if one loves to have children ant other says no
Physical or mental abuse: - this is the common problem in couples these days
According to the research teens are making life-changing decisions with the wrong portion of their brains. According to Giedd, "Teenagers' brains are not broken; they're just still under construction." So teen’s marriage will end in divorce.
If you are a teenager and are seriously considering an early marriage, these are a number of potential problem areas of which you should be aware, so that, if you do decide that this is the best action for you will be alert to the possible difficulties, which could lie ahead.
Young adults need to know that it (marriage) takes the income, time and resources of two loving partner. They also need to know that cohabiting relationships are generally less stable and secure than marriage that welfare is time-limited, and that non-custodial fathers will be held accountable for financial support.
We have to try to inform them about the economic and other benefits of marriage in right age, or helped them. Young father as well as the young mother may need education, training and job placement so they can jointly support their child. Some couples may want workshops in communication and problem solving, money management, or anger management.
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