Judge Your Self in Your Relation

Relation always stand up on the pillars of Love, Trust, Honesty and many more other good things but the most important thing is to judge yourself in your relationship that you are playing what kind of role in your relation. 'In many relationships, one partner acts as a pet of the other. What does pet do? A pet is totally devoted. The main work of a pet is to give joy to the owner. The pet can be hit by the owner in anger, but the pet came back. The pet has no personal desires. Its only expectation is getting love from the owner and being with the owner.

Same is the case with some of our relationships. In most of relationships, a partner gets so engrossed in love with the other that he/she becomes the other's pet. He or she shows so many things to make his role strong in his/ her relationship like 'I live for you. I live to make you happy. I think of different ways to make you happy. Your every wish is command for me. You can hit me, but I will return to you.' This happens. The pet gets hit and returns. The owner hits the pet again and he/she will return.

What you think about this kind of relationship ….Are you imagining the kind of relationship that is being talked about? 'I fell in love with you so much that I give up my every desire for you. It is your duty to care for me and never make me unhappy or hurt me. Why are you hitting me? What do you want? Tell me, why are hitting me? Tell me what you want and I will do that.' But such requests do not work. The sadist tendencies of the owner do not allow that. The master here knows about the control they exercise. So instead of giving care and love, they give kicks.

Why you behave like u r obeying his or her you have the same respect as you are giving so this is the world of GIVE & TAKE so if you love someone and he or she give you the same respect and love you offering then go ahead now what is the psychoanalysis? Unless you want to suffer infinitely in such a relationship, hit them back so that it hurts. Not any physical hitting. Verbal hits can inflict much greater injuries. Don't sit back and keep on getting hit in return for all the love. Hit back and get out.

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