Men are often viewed as being easy to please. The penis may not be as complicated as a vagina, but it should not be treated as if it lacks any feeling. That’s right ladies. Guys have feelings too and getting a guy to cum is not as easy as flipping on a light switch.
If a woman expects a guy to know how to rock their world, isn’t it fair for a guy to anticipate the same in return? Having sex with a woman is far from an in and out process. A woman’s partner must realize that there are many erogenous zones that must be attended to. Despite common belief, guys are the same way. In my column at Erotica69.com I love to give tips for good sex and erogenous zones are near the top of the list.
Erogenous zones are areas on a person’s body that give them a feeling of sexual arousal. Surprisingly, we are sensitive all over are bodies. From ear lobes to genitals, these targets should not be ignored. Before you even begin having sex, massage his body with your hands and mouth. Make him crazy and avoid contact with his penis right away. This will leave him yearning for more.
Another great way to pleasure your mate is to play with his balls. No matter what, absolutely do not forget his balls! Some men may not like the feeling but others need that extra bit of rubbing. Experiment with your guy if you’re unsure. Gently massage his balls with your tongue and if he likes that, work your way up to rubbing them with your hand. Nevertheless, make sure you are not too rough. While his shaft is used to taking a beating, his balls are not. Most importantly, if you want to make your man cum, pinching and biting his sack will not help you.
Making a guy cum is not as easy as flipping a switch, but start with turning on the lights. Having lights on might make you feel uncomfortable, but to him, it’s the best thing in the world. The majority of stimulation for a male is visual. Guys enjoy watching porn and associate all the porn they have seen with watching you. Notice how he always brushes your hair out of your face while you’re giving him head? He’s not trying to be nice. He’s trying to get a good view. Unless he asks you to wear a paper bag over your head, bend over, feel sexy and do it in front of a mirror.
Make some noise. We as humans are all about our senses. This point will really hit home with a simple experiment. Sit in front of the television and watch it for about 20 seconds. After 20 seconds hit the mute button; it’s not as enjoyable, is it? That is what it is like for a guy having sex with a quiet girl. Moan and scream into a pillow if you don’t want to wake the neighbors. He will enjoy the ride much more.
It is also crucial to talk dirty. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what they want. There are a few phrases that could either kill or heighten the moment very quickly. Try and find the right level of dirty talk that is acceptable. If he reciprocates, try taking it up to the next level. If you really want him to cum, tell him that. Say, “Cum in me” in a really seductive voice. That is sure to make him blow his load. Remember, dirty talking does not make you a slut, so scream it loud and proud.
Furthermore, different positions can make all of the difference. If you only do missionary, it’s time to break the habit. Try switching it up and attempt the doggy style. You may think that it is because he doesn’t want to look at your face, but if that were the case he would use the paper bag. Besides, your vagina will benefit from trying new positions. As a result, his penis will hit your g-spot more effectively in some positions than others.
Guys are not that difficult to please. Be loud, horny, flexible, rough, dirty and spontaneous. Let him know that he is the man and he can rock your world (even if he’s sub par). Most importantly, guys don’t like a dead fish. If you are one, he may want to go out fishing to find a new catch.
About the Author:
The life of Princess Kay has been a fantasy. Being born into a Royal family sounds intriguing. In truth her life may not have been much different than yours. In her weekly column “Where fairy tales can come true.” at Erotica69.com, Princess Kay talks sex and relationships and may even share a few royal secrets. Visit http://www.erotica69.com, the site where grownups come to play. Princess Kay will be waiting for you.
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